the end....
late afternoon....
it has come to the end.. i really hope that my students will do good after several mock exams done..from 50 to 100 to 165...well... pray hard for them
i have something to share and if there is by any chance an opinion is said from others.. would very much appreciate that...
yesterday .. my cousin sister pay me a visit... at the place where i'm placed... we chat for quite a bit.. at first we were only chatting about ourselves.. then suddenly she broke down into tears.. i .. being there and not knowing why... stunted to the reaction.. my GOD.... what .. why ... questions after questions came hurdling into my mind..... ok take a deep breathe... i told her...
tell me what happen...and the story goes like this...my cousin sister is married with 4 lovely kids... apparently before she got married.. she has a BF .. non-muslim... which she like so much... obviously.. they can;t get married because the guy wants her to convert and my cou-sister cannot plus wishes that the BF will convert.. so end up... both can;t convert and the BF mother found himself a perfect match and they got married... this happens way back in early 2000...
settle with that.... my cou-sis also found herself a very loving husband....and happily married..
however, recently, my cou-sis was on a company business trip and met with her ex BF ... they went out and have dinner together and.. to her... it was really like an old friend meeting kinda thing.. but not to the ex BF...ex Bf was way off... she said that the ex Bf said that this meeting is like meeting his second wife and he is willing to do anything to fulfill the second wife needs...wow.... and he said.. do not take this as a joke coz his serious...mmm...am speechless..and for my cou-sis..even worse..she had forgotten the past and move on and will never do such things to betray her beloved husband...
i ask her whether .. she do anything out of control..she says no..well that's good at least she still can control and i believe that she love and respect her husband.. the one that stood by her all the time with love and care...so i told my cou-sis ... hang loose.... if possible... avoid such meetings and stay away...
so to the Ex BF-- i hope you could realize that there is no such thing as second wife without legal marriage...and i think it is best for both to stay out of each others life... face the fact that both of u will remain good friends and not like before because it is a sin in ISLAM...
so what do you all think... any opinions...@#$%^&*(
it has come to the end.. i really hope that my students will do good after several mock exams done..from 50 to 100 to 165...well... pray hard for them
i have something to share and if there is by any chance an opinion is said from others.. would very much appreciate that...
yesterday .. my cousin sister pay me a visit... at the place where i'm placed... we chat for quite a bit.. at first we were only chatting about ourselves.. then suddenly she broke down into tears.. i .. being there and not knowing why... stunted to the reaction.. my GOD.... what .. why ... questions after questions came hurdling into my mind..... ok take a deep breathe... i told her...
tell me what happen...and the story goes like this...my cousin sister is married with 4 lovely kids... apparently before she got married.. she has a BF .. non-muslim... which she like so much... obviously.. they can;t get married because the guy wants her to convert and my cou-sister cannot plus wishes that the BF will convert.. so end up... both can;t convert and the BF mother found himself a perfect match and they got married... this happens way back in early 2000...
settle with that.... my cou-sis also found herself a very loving husband....and happily married..
however, recently, my cou-sis was on a company business trip and met with her ex BF ... they went out and have dinner together and.. to her... it was really like an old friend meeting kinda thing.. but not to the ex BF...ex Bf was way off... she said that the ex Bf said that this meeting is like meeting his second wife and he is willing to do anything to fulfill the second wife needs...wow.... and he said.. do not take this as a joke coz his serious...mmm...am speechless..and for my cou-sis..even worse..she had forgotten the past and move on and will never do such things to betray her beloved husband...
i ask her whether .. she do anything out of control..she says no..well that's good at least she still can control and i believe that she love and respect her husband.. the one that stood by her all the time with love and care...so i told my cou-sis ... hang loose.... if possible... avoid such meetings and stay away...
so to the Ex BF-- i hope you could realize that there is no such thing as second wife without legal marriage...and i think it is best for both to stay out of each others life... face the fact that both of u will remain good friends and not like before because it is a sin in ISLAM...
so what do you all think... any opinions...@#$%^&*(
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